Nigerian men are selectively rom@ntic; hear me out before you arg#e with your keyboard

Nigerian men in the diaspora and the ones in Nigeria are two different breeds. The Naija men abroad especially in America are very rom@ntic and supportive of their wives. They clean, cook, take care of the kids, come and see them at walmart and other grocery stores shopping. Their counterparts in Nigeria have different story, they do not lift a finger at home, their wives have to do all the house chores or get domestic staff to help out.
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Is it that the women in the diaspora are more rom@ntic, thus making the men more supportive and loving, or is it the weather, or the abroad culture, or the assumption that a man is under the influence of his wife’s “j@zz” (voodoo) if he helps round the house?
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Whatever it is, the women in the diaspora should cut soap for Nigerian women in Naija so we can elicit rom@nce in the men at home.
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Which woman doesn’t want rom@nce from her man? Bobo and Sisi, drop your input!