Relationship Coach, Skuki Peeshaun, has countered Apostle Femi Lazarus.
He said when a man is craky or anxious, his anxiety is 100% external and psychological (which means
he is worried about an issue and it is working him up) But when a woman is anxious, her anxiety can be external and psychological like a man’s, but she now has an extra burden, which is that her anxiety level can also be INTERNAL AND BIOLOGICAL and this is caused by the hormonal variations women go through every 28days.
A woman can go to bed very happy and wake up, tensed, short-tempered for reasons she doesn’t even know. Other times she can be overly happy and nuturing for no visible reason. Yes, it is true that many women are dramatic to the extreme, but we can not downplay the impact a woman’s biology has on her mood unannounced.
We have to let men know that it is normal for a woman to dramatic to a certain extent, when she displays this off-moods, he shouldn’t argue with her or talk her down, he simply needs to stand his ground and be firm. but no scolding or arguing. His assertiveness would calm her down again, Infact that is what she came for in the first place. His masculine firmness. If we go with this narrative, we would encourage men to snap back and nag whenever their woman is having this NORMAL-MOOD-SWINGS. And when a man responds that way, it adds to his woman’s anxiety. They’ll now be like 2 women arguing.
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