While defending her, OAP Freeze, went further to say: “Although feminism in itself is a noble cause, and by definition is a range of political and social movements and ideologies, that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, personal, and social rights for women, the way many of my Nigerian sisters are going about it is becoming counter productive.
Although I agree that men and women have equal rights I absolutely disagree that they are equal. Each gender was beautifully created by God, to serve a purpose and assist the other. However saying they are equal is like saying a cap and a pair of boxers are equal.
There was a certain young lady I was once courting, I remember trying to pick her her up and carry her, only to be corrected very sternly “don’t you EVER carry me, I’m a feminist!” ah…. Lobatan! After that day, I hastily put an end to both the courting and the carrying.
I used to know a guy called Akin who was quite unhappy with his marriage, because he had a very controlling, argumentative wife. This guy was posted to warri by the oil company he was working for, and his wife, who was well educated decided against settling with him in warri, choosing to return to the uk to work with an investment bank.
Since he didn’t want to lose his marriage, the guy found himself traveling back and forth, visiting London, monthly. While his wife worked on her career, he still paid most of her bills from Nigeria, surviving on noodles and sleeping on a cold bed.
All that changed however when he met pretty Ekaete, who was content with her BSC, wanting her home to be her major investment, indulging Akin in the world of Edika Ikong, Afang, Ekpan ku kwo, piom piom and tempting him regularly with her 28 inch waist and 44 inch hips; today they have 3 children.
Though some men like feisty, argumentative ‘my way or the high way’ kind of women, I unfortunately don’t, as I don’t enjoy relationships where women stand up to me all the time, putting their feet down, it’s something I consider a major turn off.”
